20090518

Updates

I have been really busy lately what with procrastinator parties and kids and all that jazz. I do want to thank everyone who commented on my chairs. I had fun doing it under the time crunch and will most definitely do another project party again.
Once I got the dining room finished I turned my eye toward the back porch/office this weekend, and threw out the door all the junk that was cluttering it up so horribly. I am one of those people that will clean my bedroom in the middle of the night if I can't sleep because of the clutter. So out it all went! One pile for garage, one for the yard sale this Friday, oh, did I mention that while I was doing this
de-cluttering I thought that it would be a great time for a yard sale? So now I am into it for the duration.
Jay even took out the old built in work space that was out moded for us. At the time he built it we had 2 desk top pc's and now we are using laptops, so out with that, too! I cleaned the carpet and brought in my new love seat and my old handmade desk, a reading lamp and table that I repainted white, hung curtains and made a tiny little space just for me! I picture myself early mornings, curled up on my cozy love seat with a cup of coffee in one hand and my online devotions on my laptop on the table next to me. Ah, it's the little things that make us happy, yes?

Also, I stopped babysitting. I need to concentrate on what I need to be doing here. Like exercising regularly.

Jay and I will be taking a mini-vacation the last 4 days of this month. We are going to Nevada to see a dear old friend for a couple of days, by ourselves, no children added. We really need this!

My garden is growing, albeit slowly, but it is past the danger of being frozen. There is some small bit of pride in that I started it from seeds, every bit! We also planted a june berry bush and a honeysuckle vine and they are thriving as well. Our grapevine looks very sweet with its blush colored leaves just beginning to unfurl. I always tell people that in our yard all we have to do is dig a hole and plop whatever it is we want to grow and it will take off on it's own. Which reminds me, it's dark now and I can flood my yard and garden unobserved.

One more thing: I am reading Traveling Mercies by Anne Lamott; Thin Within -a Grace oriented approach to weight loss- by Judy and Arthur Halliday RN & MD respectively; and Chuck Colson's How Now Shall We Live?. One meaty book let me tell you. I read fiction at night to help me go to sleep and if I wake up and can't sleep I can think about what I just read and if that doesn't seem to work then I will pray. That usually does it pretty fast for some reason.

4 comments:

  1. Sounds like I need to pop over soon and see all the changes and makeovers you have accomplished. Good for you!

    I'm proud of you for reclaiming your time. Glad you and Jay are taking that vacation also. Time to make your plan for the new chapter of your life. Decide what is most important and then protect it!!! There will always be someone or something that is waiting and "needing" you. All those "others" really can do it and probably don't really need us at all. ;) Finding that healthy and realistic balance can be hard for us, the caregivers of the world. It is fun when we finally step back and let others take care of themselves and they succeed, even if their success looks different than what we thought it should look like.

    Not as fun when other "fail" without us taking care of them/things, but it is wrong for us to hinder their own growth and maturity by saving them. I am still working on this one. I have rescued parents/siblings/friends/strangers... My kids are the ones who will best reap the benefits of my letting go and letting God. I'm trying to find that balance and not wanting to even come close to that fine line between assisting and enabling. The further back from the line I get, the better off everyone really is in the end. :)

    You are doing marvelous darling. Keep moving and creating!!!

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  2. It isn't easy to do that's for sure. In a large family someone always has a need. Thank you. You are one person I know that I can count on for the support in an encouraging way!

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  3. Great picture of Jay and Harley (it is Harley isn't it?).

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  4. Yes, That is Harley and Jay a year ago. I just loved the way those flowers popped up all over the veggie garden so randomly.

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